Sometimes, it’s necessary to cut it, break it and get back to perspective.
Imagine yourself weaving and suddenly a tangled string. Of course the first courses of action is to try to fix and find ways to untangle it until it goes back to its functional form. However, some tangles can get too complicated and tight. It would take you time, energy and effort to fix it this time and you have no choice but to cut it and jut start with a new thread so you can continue weaving.
Sometimes we think holding on is healthy and necessary but maybe what we really need is rest, space, freedom, time to reflect - are we on track on our journey to becoming the person we wish to be? We may be in need of new perspectives because all along we have been revolving in the same circle and never had that opportunity to grow and explore. We become contented with what is currently in front of us, we think we are happy, we think we can control our own lives - NO WE CAN'T!
Yes, we make our own decisions but the outcome is beyond our comprehension. Not everything is predictable. Sometimes, we get comfortable being in cycles and trusting in people so when things go the other way, we get shocked, bruised, shattered. Then life shows us different options, directions and ways to move forward and then we realize - there are still lots of things to try, people to meet, mountains to climb and challenges to face, we wouldn't have seen these have we not broken free from our anchors, from what / who is pulling us down.
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